Most people don’t give up on happiness; they get tired of chasing it. It starts to feel like a moving target: one more paycheck, one more relationship that finally works, one more version of yourself that stays disciplined and calm. And when you get the thing you wanted, the relief is real, but it’s brief—because your mind quietly shifts the finish line again.
Sometimes the problem isn’t that life is empty. It’s that we keep treating happiness like a prize instead of a moment. A quiet meal you didn’t rush. A message you almost didn’t send. A day where you felt steady, not “thrilled,” and you didn’t punish yourself for it. Happiness can be loud, but it often shows up as something smaller: the absence of tightness in your chest, the feeling that you’re allowed to be where you are, even if you’re still becoming who you want to be.
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